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Words of advice from Sayuri!

HOW DO I KNOW IF HE/SHE IS “THE ONE”?This girl knows her stuff!This girl knows her stuff!

So many Smeeters have asked me this question, so I will try my best to give you all some very specific things to look for in your significant other.  (However, please understand these are just some examples of what needs to be looked for in your current or future partner):

Let me first say:  Relationships are very difficult to maintain and requires a tremendous amount of work in the areas of Respect for each other,  effective communication and the Love between the two of you must be very strong.  Here are just some examples of what you should be looking for in your current partner or a future one:

  1.  You accept him/her “as is” – do not try to change your partner and your partner should not try to change you.
  2. You bring out the best in each other.
  3. You have the same values.
  4. In every situation where there is a disagreement, both parties must be willing  to always compromise.
  5. You give each other space.
  6. He/she is your best friend and confidant.
  7. He/she does not have any addictive issues (such as:  drugs, alcohol abuse)
  8. He/she has a good sense of humor.
  9. He/she makes you smile and laugh when you are together.
  10.  He/she is emotionally mature.
  11. There are no evidence of a control factor by either parties.
  12. You are both proud to be seen with each other in public places.
  13. He/she compliments you often on your appearance (i.e. your outfits, your hair style).
  14. He/she always say:  I miss you, I love you and your partner’s actions will  always be an indication of much he/she loves you.
  15. You would do anything to spend time with your partner.
  16. Whenever you are together, you have a feeling of “excitement” and butterflies in your stomach—no matter how long you both have been together as a couple.
  17. You both respect and understand each other.
  18. You both always forgive each other and quick to say:  I’m sorry.
  19. You can always be yourself when you both are together.
  20. He/she always brags about you to others.
  21. Your partner makes sacrifices for you:  and you’re happy to do the same for your partner.
  22. Whenever you are apart, you find yourself “smiling” when you just think about your partner.

*(Some excerpts from : Simplemost)

Always fall in love with someone who you Trust and Believe in.   Always remember:  relationships are hard work and both must equally put their efforts into the relationship in order to keep it alive and for longevity.  You must and should never take anything for granted.  Learn to always see and focus in the “good qualities” of your partner, which attracted you to him/her in the very first place.  Yes,  during the course of time,  people do change, but instead of tearing your partner down for things that annoy you, have a discussion and try to always compromise for a happy solution.  Try to focus on your partner’s good qualities rather than his/her past mistakes or bad behaviors. 

I believe, that the key factors here are:  If, your partner allows you to be yourself whenever you are together, if your communication between the two of you are very good, and you both understand and accept each other just the way you are, if the Trust, Respect, Love for one another is very strong:  You have a “winner” and a keeper.

“Fall in love in with someone who comes into your life, and makes you understand why it never worked with anyone else.”  (James M. Sama)

Hope all the information I have provided above help all of you to find that “right one”.  Just always remember that we are all human beings and not perfect with many flaws but, I believe,  the relationships that are solid and last for eternity, are those that have those key ingredients I mentioned above—and remember, all relationships, if you feel in your heart are worth keeping, does require a  lot of hard work by both partners. 

So until we meet again.  Keep smiling, keep dancing, keep meeting new peoples on Smeet and keep falling in love over and over again until you find the “Right One”.  If you see me around on Smeet, please do not hesitate to say “hi” and if you have any type of relationship questions or any other topics you would like to see published in my “Dear Sayuri” column in the En server Smeet blog, please message me in private.  Always remember to love one another.  Happy Smeeting and May GOD bless you always. 

SAYURI, EN Journalist, ID#13520497

Oversee the Rise of Avanthea!

Turn a fledgling settlement into a powerful kingdom!Pretty swanky castle you've got there sir.Pretty swanky castle you've got there sir.

Have you ever dreamed of becoming Lord of your own kingdom?

For a while now you've been ruling Avanthea, a nice, peaceful little settlement situated in a pleasant green land with glistering lakes, beautiful woods and mountains. The natural landscape protects you from threats from other settlements, but you have this constant feeling that you are destined for bigger and better things...

Now you have the chance to become a more powerful force! The natural resources around Avanthea have everything you could want for expansion. It´s the ideal place to build a bigger settlement.

Build farm houses, mines, quarries, lumbermills and barracks to plunder different resources and enable you to care for your ever-expanding population, as well as building your own impressive castle! Beware, though, of your adversary Lord Wolfkin. He's looking down from his castle up in the mountains and isn't likely to simply allow the rise of Avanthea without a fight! He's bound to be intent on destroying your settlement and seizing your resources for himself...

Defeat him and solve a number of other tasks and earn a truckload of Fame Points!

2017-2018 UEFA Champions League begins!

The world's hottest club competition returns!
The Champions League is the most important club event in football and the most watched across the world as there are many major European clubs searching for the most expensive and strongest title in the world.
The first Champions League group stage began on Tuesday September 12 2017. The group stage consists of 32 teams divided into eight groups. Each group consists of four teams. The first and second place holders go on to the knockout stage and third place goes to the Europa League. 
Here is the group draw of the UEFA Champions League, which took place on the evening of Thursday 24 August 2017:
Group A: Benfica - Manchester United - Basel - CSKA Moscow
Group B: Bayern Munich - Paris St Germain - Anderlecht - Celtic
Group C: Chelsea - Atletico Madrid - Roma - FK Qarabag
Group D: Juventus - Barcelona - Olympiacos - Sporting Lisbon
Group E: Spartak Moscow - Sevilla - Liverpool - Maribo
Group F: Shakhtar Donetsk - Manchester City - Napoli - Feyenoord
Group G: Monaco - Porto - Besiktas - RB Leipzig
Group H: Real Madrid - Borussia Dortmund - Tottenham - APOEL
The group matchdays are :
First round 12 - 13 September 2017
The second round 26 - 27 September 2017
Third round 17 - 18 October 2017
Forth round October 31 - November 1 2017
Fifth round 21 - 22 November 2017
The sixth and final round 5 - 6 December 2017
And for the matches kickoff times are 20:45 CEST/CET in general.
Thanks for reading guys. Have a good day and enjoy watching! ^_^
Oº°‘¨ψ† ● Ĉнιтσx ● †ψ¨‘°ºO (ID:  2303595) - EN Sports Reporter

EN/INT September Tombola Results!

Any tombola champions about?The luck of the draw!The luck of the draw!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Here are the tombola prizes for September! As per usual, a whopping NINE winners take home extra prizes this month, whilst the rest of you of course claim the participation prize.

The winning Smeeters are as follows!:

1st place: metalman (ID: 26591321) - 3,000 Coins, 500,000 Fame Points and the Gold Tombola Badge

2nd place: misty  dobs :D (ID: 19266419) - 1500 Coins, 250,000 Fame Points and the Silver Tombola Badge

3rd place: Hichame1570 (ID: 23063139) - 1000 Coins, 100,000 Fame Points and the Bronze Tombola Badge

4th place: .Rody.. (ID: 18535351) - 250 Coins, 75,000 Fame Points and the Wooden Tombola Badge

5th place: εїз šαуûяî εїз ¤» (ID: 13520497), ριχєℓ-єк (ID: 9416199), >.Grise.<® (ID: 27967942), poison ccd (ID: 22478451) and Angel2014 (ID: 26235598) - 100 Coins, 50,000 Fame Points, the Wooden Tombola Badge

Plus there's 10,000 Fame Points for the rest of the Smeeters who participated!

 

Hope you enjoyed it this month, and good luck for the next one!

End your summer with The Grand Harvest!

Time to gather your produce before the cold weather sets in!Lots to do, here. Get your friendly mates to help out. Or, ya know, bribe 'em.Lots to do, here. Get your friendly mates to help out. Or, ya know, bribe 'em.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

As we discussed earlier this week, friends are a very important part of our lives - we laugh together, cry together, and share special moments. They are also useful for getting things done when you can't be bothered. Which is especially useful this week as summer is almost over and the harvest season is in full swing. The thought of gathering all that produce alone is, frankly, a bit daunting. So ask your mates really nicely if they'll help you out. If that doesn't work, promise them a Big Mac in return or something. Whatever floats their greedy boat.

In the olden days of farming, before machines took over much of the work, all members of farming families as well as friends and external helpers were hired to work on the fields during this time of year. It was important to get everything done before the weather got worse, and failure to do so caused problems when it came to surviving the harsh winter period.

Luckily for you, your field of scrummy-looking produce is ripe for picking, but we'd advise against doing all the work alone! The Grand Harvest requires you to gather your friends to help out, so you can also enjoy spending time with them. Harvest your fields together and you will be well rewarded with Smeets and Fame Points!

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